Saturday, April 24, 2010

She's Here!


Belinda Marion Felber joined our family on Tuesday, April 20th after 15 hours of labor and 1 c-section surgery. She has black hair and slate gray eyes(probably to become brown somewhere in the near future.) She was 7 lbs. and 6 oz. and 20.5 inches long.


A short summary of the first day of the rest of our lives:
I jumped out of bed in the middle of the night stating, "My water broke!" I was quite proud at that moment I didn't get any on the bed. Brad was proud that he knew I should call the hospital because if the water breaks, the baby is coming out in the next 24 hours. By 2:30am we were checking in to Columbia St. Mary's. Most of the 20th is a blur, but the epidural helped it from becoming too painful. I even convinced Brad to walk to Whole Foods to get pizza for lunch. Me, I got water and free bedside attendants. Nurse Michelle was wonderful and kept me up to date on progress. I met tons of Medical College students, a nurse trainee from Marquette and other doctors. I also had to call and cancel a job interview that was scheduled for 2:30 on Tuesday. Thankfully they were understanding and it has been rescheduled for next week. Brad maintained the communication station by alerting the grandparents and others that our baby was on the way.

By 4:30 when my labor hadn't progressed, my doctor told me we could keep waiting or I could have a c-section. I decided that we waited long enough and I wanted the little child to join us. Our c-section started and at 6:02pm, Baby Belinda was born. Being the person laying on the table, every thing was kind of a blur but I remember Dr. Ring peeking over the blue screen telling me, "It's a girl." Brad got to cut the cord and watched little Belinda get taken care of during her first minutes of life as I was sewn back up. The rest of the evening is pretty hazy. I met lovely Belinda and my parents arrived from Minnesota. After my parents and Brad went back to the house, the feeling in my legs returned and I became more aquainted with my daughter. The nurses took her to the nursery but brought her to me each time she was hungry. She stayed in my from her morning feeding until bedtime which was usually at 11:00pm. Feedings began quite nonproductive but by Wednesday morning she was eating like a trooper and I finally had some control of my body.

Little Belinda is quite sleepy often and a good eater. She gets worried eyebrows like her cousin Timmy. She doesn't lke being exposed to the elements, but who does? She is extremely beautiful and loves being held by her parents and visitors alike. She especially enjoyed meeting Grandma Cheryl, Grandpa Bill, Grandma Sandy, Lea, Uncle Scott and the Farwells of Milwaukee: David, Katie, Sofia and Elizabeth(one of her newest playmates). She loves being swaddled up tight, but also favors sucking on her wrists or fingers whenever she can find them. The swaddle sack given to us from Columbia St. Marys kept her warm and cozy during her first night at home.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Adventures in Geocaching

In preparation for Baby Felber, Brad and I have been doing a lot of fun things together. Geocaching has been our hobby since last April. Check out www.geocaching.com if you’re interested. This weekend I set a goal of finding ten geocaches in one day. We spent Sunday afternoon exploring the area around Waterford, Mukwonago and Eagle, Wisconsin. We visited public accesses for lakes. Did you know there are port-a-potties at public accesses in Wisconsin? I never noticed them in Minnesota. We visited cemeteries, town parks, town founding stones, wildlife areas and a guardrail by the side of the road. We drove down rugged country roads and observed old barns, horses, silos and daffodils sprouting in yards. Wisconsin is a gorgeous state and I look forward to sharing the beauty with our new addition. I wonder how much “Baby’s First GPS Unit” costs?

Friday, April 9, 2010

The Baby is in Position - about 3 weeks left.

Baby and I went to the Doctor this week. All's looking well and the baby's head is position, but not down too far. Baby Felber's kicks are a bit stronger, but I can predict where they'll be. If I slouch, Junior likes to give a little kick up as if to say, "Hey - you're crowding me out!" Or if I roll over in the night - I get a little kick where my stomach meets the mattress/pillow, once again saying, "Hey - give me some room."

Brad and I have plenty of things to do before May 2. We're making the most of our "childfree" life before Junior arrives.
* Attend "Legally Blonde" at Uhlein Hall.
* Go to a Roller Derby bout.
* Attend probably 1 movie per weekend. We saw "Clash of the Titans" last week and this week we'll see "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo."
* I have book club, Brad is flying with Bridget. We're each taking care of our hobbies.
* We're going to try to find 10 Geocaches in one afternoon on Sunday.
* I have to cook a few more hotdishes to put in the freezer for the future.

We'll be busy until May 2, but after then we'll be busy in a completely different way. It's getting very close and we're very excited.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Anytime

26 days left before the due date. But fewer than 5% of babies are born on their due date and usually 90% of babies are born within 2 weeks of the due date.* Apparently I should be ready from April 18 to May 16 to have a baby. That's quite a big window of preparedness. I do think we're ready. The last remaining items to purchase are diapers and a diaper bag... plus a few other non-essentials.

Although I don't like predicting the gender of the baby, I don't mind guessing when the baby will be born. Brad has picked May 10. I told him if I had to wait that long then I would hold out for May 11, the series finale of LOST. That would cramp his style!

My mother would be happy if it was May 4, my grandmother Marion's birthday.

One of my coworkers keeps telling me it just better not happen at work. He's been telling me this since February.

Really I'd like it to happen on a Friday, so there are two extra days off of work for Brad.

Hopefully it will be in May because we have a lot of things to do in April, like see "Legally Blonde" the musical, go to Roller Derby, go to book club, get ready for Lea's bridal shower and find as many geocaches as possible. But I don't think I have a say in the matter, so when ever Baby Felber decides to join us, we'll be ready.


What date would you like in the pool? Why? Leave your guess in the comments.



* Dr Sally Tracy, Having a Great Birth in Australia ed. David Vernon, Australian College of Midwives, 2005, p22

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Top Questions

“You’re having a baby? Is it a boy or a girl?”

I can answer the first question, but we’ll find out the second answer sometime around May 2nd. Honestly there are a lot of other questions I wonder about besides the gender of the baby. My friend Monica M. taught me the true meaning of navel gazing when we were in graduate school. Graduate students practically get paid to gaze at their navels and all the navels in their field. As a pregnant woman, I have spent a lot more time that normal gazing at my navel, literally and figuratively.

Here are just a few of the questions I wonder about.
Will the baby have brown eyes?
Will the baby have hair or not?
Will the baby come early, on time or late?
Will the baby love sports or love geeky stuff? Or both?
Will the baby love dogs like its mom or tolerate them like its dad? (and tolerate is a generous word)
Will the baby learn to knit, sew or do something completely different?
Will the baby love hip hop? J

These are all fun questions to dream about and soon I’ll know some of the answers. But mainly I want a healthy happy baby that Brad and I will love and care for.